Saturday, May 5, 2007

Men are from mars all right!!!

In this silly little life, when we ourselves are not sure of what we want, we start expecting so much from the opposite sex. We want them to be the way we want, laugh and speak and love the way we want...

Why do girls need guys??? Why is there always a word security hanging around the neck of the married girls and why not in others? I have been to UK and have worked there for 3 years. I had so many friends, staff nurses and colleagues etc. etc. Though they are not too much into marriage, they have live in relationships. A girl whether in India or UK, she is just the same. THEY ALL ARE THE SAME. I have seen it myself...

Why do we need an opposite sex so much in life? When I can work and earn for myself, take care of my problems single handed, why do I want a shoulder to lean on to or a lending ear? Why am I not sufficient to live my life alone with what ever I do?
It was then I happened to watch this movie called " SHALL WE DANCE" by Richard gere and Jennifer lopez and Susan sarandon. There was a very romantic dialogue which goes like this" We need a witness to our lives. There a billion people in the planet and what does any ones life meant? But in love and marriage, you are promising to care about everything, the good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things, all of it. All the time and everyday. You are saying that you're life wont go unnoticed, because i will notice it. Your life wont be unwitnessed, coz i will be your witness."
Well is this really what we all want in life at the end of the day.... I don't know?

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